BEE Mark Semple

Working for yourself from the comfort of your home is one of the most fulfilling endeavors you can experience.

For many, they would love for their significant other to join them and share the journey.

Sharing a home business can add great value to your life and bottom line -- or it could be a source of frustration.

Following are a few insights to help you keep the peace & joy in your life, and to put the 'us' in business.

Understand each other's definition of success.

Having a clear understanding of what success means to each other is crucial to sharing the journey. If your definition is to have a comfortable consistent income with plenty of free time and his is to build a million-dollar nest-egg ASAP, you will be in totally different mindsets about your business.

Avoid expectations

Expectations are typically unrealistic and unfair. Especially, if they are unspoken. None of us are mind-readers and cannot possibly know what you expect of us if you do not convey it. When an expectation is clearly stated, then you have the opportunity to discuss, adjust and proceed accordingly.

Communicate

Communication is fundamental to all aspects of our relationships -- not just our business. And the most important part of communicating? Listening. Take the time to fully hear & understand what the other half is truly saying, and reflect it back to them. A little clarification can go a long way to ensuring what was heard was what was meant -- before action is taken.

Agree to disagree There will always be disagreements. Whether in the closest relationship or a business. Agree ahead of time how you will handle disagreements. And, remember always that you are both right. Reconciling a disagreement is not about making the other person wrong, it is about coming up with an acceptable solution. The optimum solution to any disagreement is a win-win. There may be an occasion where that is not possible. One of you must have ultimate decision making authority and may need to use it. Sparingly, of course.

Have clear boundaries on business and family time

When you have a business in your home, it is very easy to allow it to permeate all aspects of your existence and, essentially, to become your life. Establish clear boundaries on your business time and all other time in your life. When you are with your partner or family outside of business time, be mindful of how much you talk about your business. You must have time to separate from it also, so as to return refreshed and energized the next day. Your business gives you a life. Your business is NOT your life.

Sharing a business together can be a rewarding experience that can enrich your life and your relationship.

Maintain clarity on what is truly important as you share the journey and you win together.

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